November 15 2018

Holiday Organizing

Holiday Organizing

As we approach the holiday season, many of you will be decorating your homes for the holidays. Over the years, I have learned a thing or two about getting organized for the holidays.

Years ago, I got some green and red tubs to put away the decorations after the holidays were over so they would be easy to locate in the attic or basement. Before then, we used an assortment of cardboard boxes to store our decorations. The tubs were larger and had nice handles which made fewer trips up and down the attic or basement steps and the handles made them easier and safer to carry.

Believe it or not, we have a black and orange tub to store the fall and Halloween decorations and a pastel yellow tub to store spring and Easter decorations. Yep, these are obvious when stacked among other tubs and easy to find or send someone else to get.

This year as you get out your decorations think about those that you choose not to put out and consider WHY you aren’t using them this year. Maybe they just don’t suit your tastes or style of decorating anymore. Maybe they belong to your kids and you need to sort those into a tub for each of your children so they will have a tub of their own to start their decoration collection with when they move into a home of their own. We have a few ornaments that are very breakable family treasures that we rarely put on our tree because we don’t want to take a chance on breaking them. As I am writing this and thinking of those ornaments, it occurs to me that these will have no meaning to our kids because they were never a part of our holiday decorating. I am now asking myself what I am saving them for. This is the year we either use it or lose it. If it doesn’t fit neatly into the tubs we already have to store our decorations in, then we will need to declutter some things so we can keep others.

Another quick tip is to attach a list of what is in each box or at least label them (ornaments, garland, lights, nativity, etc.). You could use double-sided tape to attach a sheet protector and then slide the lists in and out as needed while keeping it clean, dry and protected.

We have done this every few years and we got to the point where we realized the ornaments our kids were getting each year were over-crowding our tubs and the kids needed their own, so I waited for the lovely red and green tubs to go on deeply discounted sale and bout one for each of them. Then we took a huge black permanent marker and wrote each kid’s name on the lid and tub their ornaments would now be stored in.

If that kid didn’t take the time to put their decorations on the tree then they didn’t get used. The kids were also in charge of taking their ornaments off the tree each year and putting them away in the boxes they came in to keep them nice. This is always something of a trip down memory lane as they remember the things that were going on in their lives during those years. Their great-grandmother and grandma each chose ornaments for each of them every year. The ornaments were usually Hallmark ornaments. Occasionally if we found an ornament that had particular meaning for one of them we would also get them an ornament. Because the kids were in charge of hanging their own ornaments each year, they remember them and will have those memories for the rest of their lives. I would tell the kids as they packed their ornaments away that first year that they should also put any ornament they personally made in their tubs and let me know if there was anything, in particular, they wanted to keep that had special meaning to them but didn’t specifically belong to them.

Last year, we never got around to putting the tree up and it was oddly sad not seeing it, but very nice not having to put it away either. It was the only year I can ever remember not having decorated the house for the holiday season.

Now we don’t get carried away, we usually just set up the artificial tree and decorate it, hang the stockings and set out some decorations on the mantel and tabletops in the living room. We don’t have tons of stuff and it can usually be put up or taken down in an afternoon or evening. I like the get it set up over Thanksgiving weekend and Hubby doesn’t like to have it taken down before the twelfth day of Christmas for some reason. I usually like it down sometime around new years, but I usually let him keep it up longer.

So when it comes to organizing your holiday decorations you need to set aside a time and add it to your calendar to do the decorating and un-decorating. You also need to make a list of things you will need like wrapping paper, tape, bows, gift boxes or whatever you use. Do you need to buy stamps to mail letters or cards? Is your address list current? Do you need to get updated addresses for that cousin that bought a house this year? Schedule in ten or fifteen minutes a day to do something to make this year’s holiday season go smoother. Do you have the recipes you will make gathered up? Have you been adding the non-perishable items to your shopping list each week so the grocery budget doesn’t explode the end of December? What are the things you can do ahead of time to save yourself the added stress later?

Do you know where you are going on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day? What days do you and your family members have off work? Are there programs you need to attend? Add them all to your calendar. Do you need to make reservations for dinner somewhere? How about tickets to the show or event you want to attend? Do you plan to donate your time ringing a bell, wrapping gifts, shopping for those less fortunate, serving meals at a soup kitchen? Add it all to your calendar. It would be a shame to miss something you want to do because it wasn’t on your calendar and in the business of the season it slipped your mind.

If you take the time to make your lists and check them twice over the next week or two, you will be amazed at how much smoother everything goes and how much less stressed you feel and how much more enjoyable the season can be. You owe it to yourself to get organized for the holidays. Yes, YOU are worth it!

In case you missed these recent holiday related posts, be sure to take a minute to read them by clicking the links below.

Are the Holidays a Burden?
Saving for the Holidays

If you have been reading this blog very long it probably isn’t a surprise that I am pre-writing some of the November Thursday posts so I can focus on writing a 50,000-word novel in 30 days (NaNoWriMo). Stay tuned and add yourself to the email list in the near the upper right of this page so you can be notified by email when I post something new and can read it right in your email if you choose.

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October 18 2018

Finding Time to Write NaNoWriMo

As October draws to a close and November approaches I find myself thinking about how I will fit in the time it takes to write every day. There are several things I can do during October to lessen the demands on my time next month. While I am planning to use these to find the time to write 50,000 words in the 30 days of November for NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month), these ideas could work for anyone at any time of the year for any reason you might be looking to find more time in your schedule to do the things you need or want to do. So here is what I can do to save as much time as possible.

Stock the Pantry

This sounds so simple, but if we stock up on the basics and make sure we have what we need to make meals and snacks, this will save us from unscheduled trips to the grocery. I also highly recommend that you make sure you have enough toilet paper, paper towels, laundry detergent, paper plates or whatever it takes to keep things running smoothly without the need to do those pesky little tasks like washing dishes for the next four to six weeks. Obviously, I try to stock up when things are on sale anyway, but this might not be possible, so just this once, sale or not, I will be stocking up to get me through the month of November at the very least and preferably through the rest of the year…think hectic holidays.

Menu Planning

You might already plan your weekly meals, and if so, that is great. If you don’t, now is the time to get started on that new habit. Plan things that can be prepped now and frozen, then just thawed overnight and dumped in a crockpot in the morning before work to save time with dinner prep later. Consider adding bagged salads or salad kits to your meal plan once or twice a week. When life gets crazy-busy, this is not the time to eat junk food and cut back on fruits and veggies. These can actually be easy or no prep snack and meal options to fall back on. These are also super easy to throw in a lunch bag when heading out the door to work. Trust me, plan simple meals that take little time to cook or make extras and freeze meal-sized portions to be eaten next month. Maybe menu planning means partnering up with a friend and making a schedule where you trade off cooking and share the feast every other night or something. Get creative, but plan to nourish your body instead of punishing yourself with unhealthy alternatives.

Consider things like browning larger batches of ground beef or turkey all at once then drain and freeze it in bags of about 2 cups/1 pound so it is ready to make tacos, sloppy joes, spaghetti, Hamburger Helper or whatever you use it for. It thaws much faster when it is precooked than a block of raw meat and make dinner prep much faster because there is less cooking and cleaning time involved.

Grill a whole grill full of meat the next time you cookout and package the meat in individual serving sizes and freeze after it cools. We have pre-cooked burgers, brats, pork chops, chicken, and more. Having this food cooked and “banked” in the freezer means you can eat grilled meat with very little trouble all year long.

Clean all of your produce and bag it in snack-sized portions so it is easy to grab the healthy stuff and get back to writing. Anything you can do in larger batches and ahead of time will save you time later.

Clean the House

Yes, this means you. If your house is cleaned thoroughly this month then you can let it slide a little while you are busy next month. If possible just pick up after yourself regularly so it stays basically company-ready through November and you will be that much ahead of things for the holidays. We don’t want cleaning to be your procrastination activity of choice to avoid writing your novel. If you are overwhelmed and don’t know where to start, try FlyLady.

Practice Your Craft

Practice writing or doing something to work on your novel every day, if possible, to get a jump start on the habit for next month. Don’t hesitate to count “writing adjacent” activities toward the daily habit. My friend Alicia introduced this phrase to me and it means doing anything from outlining, reading, watching movies in a comparable genre to the novel you are writing, research, etc. as long as it has something to do with writing. It might just be five minutes a day the first week, but the next week you can increase it to ten minutes a day. If you want to be a writer, you must make time to write. Make it a priority in your life and start building small pockets of time to do something toward your writing goal with any free bit of time you find even if it is only five minutes at a time. All those little pockets of time can really add up. Keep a notebook or index cards with you to jot a quick idea or note about something that you thought of that you want to add to your novel. You can do this while standing in line, instead of pickup up your phone and scrolling through your social media feeds, instead of binging on TV or NetFlix. You know what your time stealers are…you don’t have to give them all up, but switch a few to writing adjacent activities. Thanks, Alicia for sharing writing adjacent-ing with us!

You Need A Plan

Plan what you will write. That means you need to get to know your characters, your setting and at least your major plot points ahead of time. Do whatever you can ahead of time to make sure you know what you are writing and will be ready to jump in a start writing on November 1st. If you have a well-planned project, you will be less likely to struggle with writer’s block when the pressure is on.

Those are my suggestions for organizing your time, specifically so you can write your novel with me and all the other NaNo participants in November. If you are not a writer, you can still make use of these tips (most of them anyway) to get you through those super busy times in your life without compromising your mental or physical health while you do so.

If you have any other time management tips to share, please leave them in the comments below, use the contact form or send me a message via email. I am always looking for ways to save time or make more time for the million things I really want to do but never seem to have enough time for. If I get enough tips, I will compile them into a new post to share here.

If you don’t know what NaNoWriMo is, please read more here. It is really a great way to meet other writers and get started on your story.

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September 20 2018

Kitchen Cabinet Organizing

When we bought our house December 2000, the kitchen was still in the half-finished state it had been in for the previous nine years since my in-laws stopped working on remodeling it for health reasons. The floor was exposed wood because the previous flooring was no longer visible, having long since worn away. Some of the walls had wallpaper and some were still bare drywall. The wooden paneling, that was meant to cover ALL the walls on the lower half, was only installed behind the cabinets on one side of the room. The cabinets used to be new on the outside wall, but they were never quite the right fit for the wall, so there has always been a three-inch gap between the stove and the cabinet next to it on one side or the other. My in-laws also chose a lovely country blue colored countertop, but the blue has worn away in many places on the countertop that gets the most use. I wish I could say those issues have all been dealt with over the almost eighteen years we have lived here, but that just isn’t the case.

There is one wall of built-in cabinets that my in-laws lovingly refinished and those are the ones we will focus on for this decluttering session.

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May 31 2018

Landing Project

Ok, what I am about to show you is horrifying, at least to me. We couldn’t fit all of the furniture from our master bedroom into the smaller room we had to move into after the ceiling fell in our room, so rather than haul it up to the attic or down to the basement, we took the easy way out and stuffed it into our landing leaving just enough room to walk past. Yes, it looks like a hoarding situation, I am aware.

Before…

That big pile there on top of the antique dresser behind the rocking chair is stuff my daughter decided was going to be donated to charity. We weren’t supposed to pile it there anymore but since we had been doing that for years, she forgot.

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May 24 2018

Reading Room Project

In case you haven’t heard, Hubby and I are officially empty nesters again, but this time it seems to be permanent. Last time, it was because the kids had gone off to college. Now, our son has a house he bought over a year ago and our daughter has signed a lease for an apartment so she is committed elsewhere for at least a year. We asked her to empty her room because we had plans for it.

Six or more weeks later, it still looked like this, and one Saturday we went up to clear off the desk so we could grow plants on it in front of the window. Before we started, we asked her to stop by after work on Sunday evening because we would have a box or two for her.

Before…

This shot was taken from the doorway. She had taken the stuff she knew she wanted out but wasn’t sure what to do with the rest. There didn’t seem to be any sort of system, but she later told us that some boxes were partially filled with items to donate to charity. Continue reading