October 18 2018

Who (Five Minute Friday)

Kate says “who” this week. So timer set and here goes.

Who do you think you are to write and put it out there for the world to see? What makes you think anyone wants to read what you have to say? Sure the teachers told you that your writing was decent when they wrote the high marks on your essays in school. Then there are those older relatives, many of whom are no longer of this earth, that wrote in their Christmas cards how much they looked forward to your annual holiday newsletter because they liked getting to hear about the things we were doing throughout the year and that the photos were nice too. But that doesn’t mean the whole internet-viewing world needs to see what you write does it?

Well, why not? I have a lot of life experience to share, fifty-two years of experience and still gaining more every day. Why shouldn’t I write about the things I have seen and learned in my lifetime if I could help some younger person avoid the mistakes I’ve made? Maybe I DO have something worthwhile to say and share. Just because I put it out there doesn’t mean they have to read it, right?

Stop. That is where five minutes and my fast two-finger typing will get me. Until next time…

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Who
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

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October 5 2018

Share (Five Minute Friday)

Each week, at the most amazing writing group ever, someone brings chocolate to share. It started a while back when we planned a chocolate pitch-in, but it has been kept up by someone every week. Sometimes it is something home-baked, other times it is store-bought, or prepackaged commercial, brand-name chocolate. Occasionally, it is something that doesn’t even contain chocolate, but it doesn’t matter. It is all about the sharing, really.

What do you share? Who do you share it with?

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Share
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

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October 4 2018

Potential (Five Minute Friday)

Here I am again waiting until the last minute to write last Friday’s Five Minute Friday post. Some would say I am squandering my potential. I might just agree with them on days like today. On other days I ask myself why I bother to write blog posts at all, it seems my audience of maybe 10 people is pretty well set and even they don’t read my posts regularly, but only occasionally when they remember. Then I remind myself that when I first started blogging the only way I could get myself to post at all was to tell myself that nobody was ever going to see what I wrote and it was basically anonymous. I didn’t tell anyone what I was up to for the first couple of years except my hubby and kids and they only seemed marginally interested at best.

I read multiple articles about choosing a niche to blog about, and I’d tell myself I’ve done that. My niche is sharing all the wisdom I have gained through experience as a member of the 50 and over club. But in the back of my mind, I know that is not what the articles meant. “They” (yes, the infamous they) think I should choose just one thing to write about on a regular schedule for the rest of my life, or at least the rest of my blogging life. How monotonous! I can’t, I know myself that well, at least. Then, defiant me comes rearing its ugly head saying it is MY blog and I can write what I want to. I think we are at an impasse.

I found myself posting willy-nilly, whatever struck my fancy or a nerve each week. So, a while back, I came up with a schedule to help me know what to write each Thursday and not post similar things back to back. I even made myself a printable and hung it up in my office to remind me I had a schedule to keep now. Then I made it the background on my laptop’s desktop so it was there as a ready reference because I rarely write the Thursday posts in my office at home. Do you want to see it here? I guess I could show you.

So, now you know my secret schedule. You can go back over the last few months of posts and see how closely I have followed it. It actually helps me to focus on any given week to know what I am supposed to be writing about that week. It also keeps me from bombarding you with all the posts at once when I write in batches as I seem to do sometimes. (Gotta write when the muse nudges you, right?)

The potential to be consistent and organized in my posts is all contained in that one graphic that I created on a Thursday when I was procrastinating on actually writing and squandering my potential yet again. How do you decide on your blogging niche? Where do you get your ideas? I just consider the Five Minute Friday posts to be a bonus for all of us, because sometimes this ends up being my best writing and seems to be the one way that new readers find me.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Potential
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

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October 2 2018

31 Days of 5 Minute Free Writes Challenge

This post is part of the 31 Days of 5 Minute Free Writes Challenge. Scroll down for the links and the graphic showing the prompts for the month.

It will be pinned to the top of the page until the end of the month. Check back for updates on the prompts. I may write several at a time and update just a couple of times a week. I seriously considered not posting any at all until all 31 were written. But that seemed like a long time to let myself possibly get behind. So I will post at least once a week. Five Minute Friday posts will be posted separately as they have been and linked to this post. I may not write them in order and I might add to some after I have posted if something else comes to me.

1 [story] Tell me a story, we would say to our Mom. She knew what we meant. We wanted her to read us a story. We wanted the close interaction where we knew we had her attention even if we had to share it between the four of us. Sometimes when we were still small enough one of us would get to climb in her lap and see the pictures in the book while she read to us, assuming the book had pictures anyway.
I suppose my love of reading and even writing can be traced back to those early stories Mom read to us. It helped us understand that words had the power to transport you into worlds you might never get to see otherwise and meet people from other countries or even planets. Nothing was impossible in a story. The author could tell you something from their own life or make something up. It didn’t matter if it was true or not, only that it was interesting to hear or read.
Words build stories and stories build imagination and imagination can take you anywhere! Read to the children in your life, because doing so could completely change their life forever for the better.

2 [afraid] In 2017, I chose my first ever word of the year. I chose the word FEARLESS to guide me through the year. To read more about my year of being fearless, please see the post from January 11, 2018. Don’t be afraid to choose a word of the year to guide you, often the word chooses you. Just give it some thought, there is plenty of time to select one before the new year begins.

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September 23 2018

Complete (Five Minute Friday)

This Friday was a travel day for me. We were up early to gather or things and get to the airport. We flew on a small plane with only 3 seats per row for the first flight and all was remarkably quiet. Then we got on the larger plane for the pond-jumping part of our trip. The international flight was on a larger plane with 6 seats per row. For that flight, I was stuck in a middle seat. The flight was uncomfortably long, over six hours and with the five hour time difference we lost a night of sleep. We arrived early on Saturday morning.

No overly long flight across an ocean would be complete without a constantly crying baby. I didn’t mind too much, the baby was probably as ready to be off that airplane as I was. Then with all the popping of ears with cabin pressure, it was probably scary and uncomfortable for the baby. I was just grateful that the baby was way up in the front of the plane and we were much nearer to the back of the plane which allowed the screams to be muted somewhat by the distance. I can only imagine how rough it would have been to be stuck in any seat near the little screamer.

I had to admire the parents or whoever was responsible for the little screamer because the mere fact that they had the guts to even think of traveling by plane such a distance with an infant makes them much braver than I. We took our kids to Disney in 2000 so they would have been almost seven and barely nine at that time. I couldn’t imagine trying such a trip with younger kids who didn’t have a concept of time or the ability to entertain themselves for hours. It was the kids’ first plane ride and the first I could actually remember as well. I am told I was about two years old the only time I flew on a plane before that and I have no memory of it at all.

Flying gets easier each time I do it. I’m still not crazy about the closeness we are confined to with so many other people. As an introvert, this is not an ideal situation to put myself into on a regular basis. Never knowing if THIS trip will be the last I get to take to such a destination, I try to make the most of any trip I get to take.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Complete
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

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