April 9 2019

Offer (Five Minute Friday)

What do I have to offer? I have the wisdom that comes with fifty plus years of experience. I have a few tried and true recipes. I have raised two terrific kids who are both past the quarter-century mark now, and NO, that doesn’t make me feel old. I have my opinions. I have the ability to learn new things, and relatively quickly, too, I might add. I have the ability to write about the things I have learned and share them with the younger generation right here on this blog. Not that I really think they will bother to read what I have written, but if nothing else, anything posted on the internet begins to live a life of its own. Perhaps through that life that my words live on the internet, perhaps I can make a difference in this world, if not today, then someday. Perhaps someday when I have gone on to my heavenly reward, and my kids find themselves missing me and wondering what Mom would do or say, they will also remember that I was always posting on that little blog of mine, and search for the link I sent them in an email once. That link that they always meant to follow and read if for no other reason than to see what I might have written about them and whether they should be mortified or not.

In reality, my words might well disappear after I am no longer around to renew the domain registration and pay for the hosting. But for now, I offer the words I write to the world at large in hopes that they can make a difference in at least one person’s life with each post I write, for that alone would make life worth living and writing worth writing now wouldn’t it? The little experiment I started on a whim one weekend when Hubby was out of town and nobody was around to tell me I shouldn’t or couldn’t or dare me by saying I wouldn’t. I guess I’ve written enough by now to have proven them wrong anyway. Who knew I had so much to say?

This little blog didn’t take off quite like I hoped it would, but then perhaps I could have put a lot more effort into publicizing it. Sometimes, the only way I have the nerve to post a particular piece is by telling myself that almost nobody reads the posts anyway and the few that do won’t likely get to the end of my lengthy posts and they won’t make the effort to post if they do, so I write what moves me and post it hoping it will reach the one person who really needed to read what that particular post had to offer to the world.

If you read my posts, please do me the great favor of letting me know. You needn’t leave a comment, just shoot me an email or use the contact form and it will just get seen by little old me and brighten my day. If I have reached you with just the right message on this particular day, I am pleased. Thanks for reading and have a blessed day.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Offer
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

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March 31 2019

Measure (Five Minute Friday)

I get a measure of satisfaction from knowing that I am feeding myself healthy food. Each night that means that, if I work the next day, I take the time to make a simple green smoothie. Nothing artificial goes into it and I get to start each workday knowing that my breakfast was a good portion of the fruits and veggies I need for the day.

I also take the time to peel whole carrots and cut them for us to take to work a few days a week. On the days we don’t take carrots we take cut celery, cabbage or even cauliflower, all raw and cut into pieces smaller than an inch. I use my raw veggies as a morning snack and cut it into one quarter to one half inch thick slices instead of sticks so that I can nibble on them or pop an entire piece into my mouth and chew quietly so as to not bother my coworkers by crunching on carrots and celery. Hubby still prefers to eat his celery and carrots as sticks, though.

It takes maybe 30 minutes on a Sunday night to prep the veggies for the week which makes packing lunch each morning while I drink my smoothie a breeze.

At lunch, I cut into an apple and eat that. I don’t bother to measure all these things out, but I know by the time the workday is through, I have had a minimum of 5 servings (usually more) of fruits and veggies and that no matter how far I go astray with eating the rest of the day, I already did something good for my health. I measure that as a success. The added bonus is that while my coworkers may be judging me, at least it’s for having healthy eating habits and not for constantly eating donuts, or chips or M&Ms all day long.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Measure
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

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March 24 2019

Reward (Five Minute Friday)

Life is full of rewards. This time of year, we are rewarded for surviving another winter with the site of the first Robin of spring, and the green shoots as the spring flowers burst forth from the messy ground that winter has left behind.

If you are a mother, your reward for the disfigurement of your body for all those months is the newborn baby you hold in your arms and get to leave the hospital with and spend the next eighteen plus years raising. I wrote a post in May 2016, The Rewards of Parenting, that you might enjoy reading, if for no other reason than to see the awesome photo in the post.

When you do well on a diet or weight loss journey, your reward is a new wardrobe and a smile in the mirror from the stranger that was hidden in your body.

The reward from writing blog posts comes in the form of comments and encouragement from those who read what you have written.

The reward for many years of working and scrimping and saving is a retirement funded by the savings and investments you scrimped and saved over the years.

When you clean the house before you leave for a vacation, your reward is coming home to peace and order instead of CHAOS.

Life is full of rewards. They are everywhere. They aren’t always obvious. They aren’t always the rewards you wanted, but there are always rewards. Never forget there are always two sides to every coin. If you keep your head up, and praise God for the rewards he has given you will be more likely to notice the rewards in your life. This is called an attitude of gratitude. In any given situation, you can choose to laugh or cry. Look for the good and if you can’t laugh, at least smile and be glad you were here to be tested/rewarded again. If you must cry, do it from joy instead of sadness. Every cloud has a silver lining and there you will find your reward.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Reward
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

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March 20 2019

Place (Five Minute Friday)

Where is my place? I have always lived in my hometown, Indianapolis, Indiana, USA. I will likely always live here. It is what I know. Where I call home. There is still so much to learn, explore and do here. I have seen it change in so many ways during my 50+ years, but in many ways, it has stayed the same. We are the “little” big town. We don’t have a great public transportation system like they do in Washington, DC, but they are working on it. It isn’t always warm here like it is in the south, but we can handle the snow and for the most part, we know how to drive in it.

I’ve always felt like this place, this city, this municipality, is made up of many smaller towns. If you go far enough in any compass direction, you will find one of just about any shopping place you could imagine. When you get there if that store doesn’t have what you are looking for in your size, they can call the other stores and find one that does and in thirty minutes you can get there to pick it up. Like a small city within the larger city.

There are a few rough edges, but those are seriously out shown by all the good things in our city. There is so much to see and do here, that I can imagine trying to mention them all. You know how to Google, so if you ever find yourself heading this way, you can look for the kinds of things YOU want to see and do here because I’m sure we have it. Our great city has something for everyone, and we offer good ole Hoosier hospitality to boot! Drop me a line if you are heading this way and have any questions.

If you want to read the last post I wrote for this prompt, you can find it here.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Place
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

March 13 2019

More (Five Minute Friday)

The prompt this week is more. Everyone wants more. More of your time, more effort, even more of your money. Hardly ever do we have someone asking us for less. What we need to do is put forth more effort with less of the “I showed up so I deserve a paycheck” mentality. I have to admit until recently, my knowledge of the work ethic (or the lack thereof) of fellow employees has been limited. I spent almost twelve years as the youngest and newest hire in a very small company with two aging owners, one part-time employee that had been with the company over thirty years that could be called in on short notice to pitch-in when needed, and then there were the two of us that worked full-time and then some, every day of every week, doing whatever was asked of us because that was our job. We could take the job as it was or go find something that suited us better elsewhere. If we didn’t work, we didn’t get paid.

In the past six months, I have worked in a much, much larger company with a much more diverse workforce. While it appears that most of the employees who actually work for the company do an honest day’s work for an honest day’s pay, the same cannot be said for all of those who are temporary employees like myself. Now make no mistake, we knew going into this assignment that we were being hired to be temporary employees, not direct-hire and not temp-to-hire. I went into the assignment determined to learn all I could and add the experience and new knowledge to my resume along with some potential new references. I try to look at every new task as an opportunity to learn more, add new skills to my repertoire, and expand my horizons. A few of my fellow temps have the same work ethic I do, and not surprisingly, those folks are also “of a certain age” or older. A few of the younger temps I have run across as well as some who were also of said certain age or beyond seem to think if you are asked to be at work from 8 in the morning until 5 at night that means you need to be signed in by 8 and out the door by 5. I was raised to be at my desk, logged into my computer and actually working or ready to begin at 8, and that I would work until 5 before logging off and leaving for the day. Many of the more relaxed temps sign in on time but then take their coat off, go to the restroom, say hello to everyone, get the morning coffee and finally make it to their seat and begin booting up or logging in about fifteen minutes after they were supposed to report to work. The process is reversed at the end of their shift, with them starting to get ready to go about fifteen minutes before their day is supposed to end. This was a shock to me. Especially from those folks, I assumed were old enough to know better and to have been raised to do better.

Now I also noticed that some people are very lax about when they show up for work and about finding one excuse after another to leave early. I guess even noticing this means my age is showing. For example, today, a temp was going to leave early, at two for an appointment. When we went to the breakroom to eat lunch at about 12:30, she tagged along though she wasn’t planning to eat since she was leaving early. When we asked her why she was taking lunch but not eating she said she needed a break. She sat there chatting until one then announced that she needs to go as it was time for her to leave. She signed out at one with no mention of the lunch break she had taken.

Really? How do you sleep at night? This is the same as stealing. The same people who wouldn’t dream of stealing office supplies or a computer from the company they work for think nothing of wasting hours each day checking their cell phones, taking personal calls or deciding 4:45 is close enough to five so they are leaving for the day. They steal time and thus money from their employers! I see this sort of thing happening more and more, and it needs to be addressed. Nobody likes a tattle-tale, and I have no intention of being one. I assume that with all the tech people the company has on staff that they are tracking every move we make on the computers. I work as though they are logging every keystroke we make while logged into the company’s virtual desktop environment. Maybe they do and maybe they don’t. Since this particular temp is still there, maybe they track it but don’t really check it unless they need it to go to trial or something. Who knows? I realize more than ever that good help is hard to find and that employers must be having a terrible time finding decent help if this sort of behavior is being overlooked.

I pray those who lack decent work ethic will learn the lesson before it is too late. Do more, be more. Stop squandering your potential! When I leave work each day, I may be tired, but I know I am doing an honest day’s work for my pay and am thankful to have the job. It is awesome to have a job working for people who appreciate the work you do for them and thank you for putting in the effort it takes to do a good job. A little praise goes a long way. I may have gone into the job knowing it was only temporary, but I told them I was going to do my best to make them want to find a way to keep me when my contract was up or at least keep me in mind the next time they had an opening. How did that work? So far so good, they found a way to extend my contract and keep me twice as long as they initially hired me for and I am still there. With any luck, this will be the job I retire from in fifteen or twenty years.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: More
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

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