March 20 2019

Place (Five Minute Friday)

Where is my place? I have always lived in my hometown, Indianapolis, Indiana, USA. I will likely always live here. It is what I know. Where I call home. There is still so much to learn, explore and do here. I have seen it change in so many ways during my 50+ years, but in many ways, it has stayed the same. We are the “little” big town. We don’t have a great public transportation system like they do in Washington, DC, but they are working on it. It isn’t always warm here like it is in the south, but we can handle the snow and for the most part, we know how to drive in it.

I’ve always felt like this place, this city, this municipality, is made up of many smaller towns. If you go far enough in any compass direction, you will find one of just about any shopping place you could imagine. When you get there if that store doesn’t have what you are looking for in your size, they can call the other stores and find one that does and in thirty minutes you can get there to pick it up. Like a small city within the larger city.

There are a few rough edges, but those are seriously out shown by all the good things in our city. There is so much to see and do here, that I can imagine trying to mention them all. You know how to Google, so if you ever find yourself heading this way, you can look for the kinds of things YOU want to see and do here because I’m sure we have it. Our great city has something for everyone, and we offer good ole Hoosier hospitality to boot! Drop me a line if you are heading this way and have any questions.

If you want to read the last post I wrote for this prompt, you can find it here.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Place
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

March 14 2019

Karen’s Veggie Soup Recipe

I created this recipe many years ago because I wanted to see if I could make a really good tasting vegetable soup that even my kids would eat. This is quick

and easy to make and Hubby says it is the best veggie soup he has ever eaten. I think that is due for the most part to my secret ingredient, beef bouillon cubes. Don’t tell, now, but this is my secret to making things taste “beefy”. In this case, it takes some of the “bite” out of the tomato and makes the vegetables go down easier. It also gives it a beefy taste without breaking your meat budget if that is a concern, just put less meat in. I used to use round steak for all things that others would use stew beef for because it was usually leaner and if found on sale, cheaper. Now it is much more difficult to find the round steak in the meat case at our local groceries, so I have had to resort to using stew beef myself. I usually cut the beef into much smaller chunks so you get some meat in almost every bite.

Vegetable Soup

2 (46 oz) Bottles or cans of Tomato Juice
1½ – 2 lb Beef Round Steak (or stew beef) cut into bite-sized pieces (all visible fat removed)
4 (15 oz) cans Mixed Vegetables
1 (12 oz) box Alphabet pasta (optional)
8 Beef Bouillon Cubes

Brown meat over medium or high heat until no longer pink. Drain off any fat. Pour in tomato juice. Add bouillon cubes. Pour in mixed vegetables and any liquid from the cans. Bring to a boil. Pour in pasta. Continue to cook over medium heat for at least 10 minutes, stirring frequently so the pasta doesn’t stick. Can be simmered until you are ready to serve it. Serve with bread and butter.

All ingredients may be generic; the taste will still be great. Makes a big stockpot full, so plan on a big crowd or leftovers. Also just as good without the pasta letters, but the kids love them. Any small pasta is fine, but the letters are just more fun. (A Karen Beidelman Original Recipe)

This is before it starts cooking.

This is what it looks like when it is ready to eat. Didn’t have the pasta so I left it out this time, which also saves calories. The pasta started out as a way to stretch it and make it more filling while getting the kids to eat it, and it became a normal part of the recipe after that.

If you want to stretch it, add more veggies or tomato juice or both. You can make it vegetarian by leaving out the meat, it all depends on what you like and who you are feeding. Refrigerate any leftovers in a tightly closed container.

If you make this recipe, I’d love to hear from you.

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March 13 2019

More (Five Minute Friday)

The prompt this week is more. Everyone wants more. More of your time, more effort, even more of your money. Hardly ever do we have someone asking us for less. What we need to do is put forth more effort with less of the “I showed up so I deserve a paycheck” mentality. I have to admit until recently, my knowledge of the work ethic (or the lack thereof) of fellow employees has been limited. I spent almost twelve years as the youngest and newest hire in a very small company with two aging owners, one part-time employee that had been with the company over thirty years that could be called in on short notice to pitch-in when needed, and then there were the two of us that worked full-time and then some, every day of every week, doing whatever was asked of us because that was our job. We could take the job as it was or go find something that suited us better elsewhere. If we didn’t work, we didn’t get paid.

In the past six months, I have worked in a much, much larger company with a much more diverse workforce. While it appears that most of the employees who actually work for the company do an honest day’s work for an honest day’s pay, the same cannot be said for all of those who are temporary employees like myself. Now make no mistake, we knew going into this assignment that we were being hired to be temporary employees, not direct-hire and not temp-to-hire. I went into the assignment determined to learn all I could and add the experience and new knowledge to my resume along with some potential new references. I try to look at every new task as an opportunity to learn more, add new skills to my repertoire, and expand my horizons. A few of my fellow temps have the same work ethic I do, and not surprisingly, those folks are also “of a certain age” or older. A few of the younger temps I have run across as well as some who were also of said certain age or beyond seem to think if you are asked to be at work from 8 in the morning until 5 at night that means you need to be signed in by 8 and out the door by 5. I was raised to be at my desk, logged into my computer and actually working or ready to begin at 8, and that I would work until 5 before logging off and leaving for the day. Many of the more relaxed temps sign in on time but then take their coat off, go to the restroom, say hello to everyone, get the morning coffee and finally make it to their seat and begin booting up or logging in about fifteen minutes after they were supposed to report to work. The process is reversed at the end of their shift, with them starting to get ready to go about fifteen minutes before their day is supposed to end. This was a shock to me. Especially from those folks, I assumed were old enough to know better and to have been raised to do better.

Now I also noticed that some people are very lax about when they show up for work and about finding one excuse after another to leave early. I guess even noticing this means my age is showing. For example, today, a temp was going to leave early, at two for an appointment. When we went to the breakroom to eat lunch at about 12:30, she tagged along though she wasn’t planning to eat since she was leaving early. When we asked her why she was taking lunch but not eating she said she needed a break. She sat there chatting until one then announced that she needs to go as it was time for her to leave. She signed out at one with no mention of the lunch break she had taken.

Really? How do you sleep at night? This is the same as stealing. The same people who wouldn’t dream of stealing office supplies or a computer from the company they work for think nothing of wasting hours each day checking their cell phones, taking personal calls or deciding 4:45 is close enough to five so they are leaving for the day. They steal time and thus money from their employers! I see this sort of thing happening more and more, and it needs to be addressed. Nobody likes a tattle-tale, and I have no intention of being one. I assume that with all the tech people the company has on staff that they are tracking every move we make on the computers. I work as though they are logging every keystroke we make while logged into the company’s virtual desktop environment. Maybe they do and maybe they don’t. Since this particular temp is still there, maybe they track it but don’t really check it unless they need it to go to trial or something. Who knows? I realize more than ever that good help is hard to find and that employers must be having a terrible time finding decent help if this sort of behavior is being overlooked.

I pray those who lack decent work ethic will learn the lesson before it is too late. Do more, be more. Stop squandering your potential! When I leave work each day, I may be tired, but I know I am doing an honest day’s work for my pay and am thankful to have the job. It is awesome to have a job working for people who appreciate the work you do for them and thank you for putting in the effort it takes to do a good job. A little praise goes a long way. I may have gone into the job knowing it was only temporary, but I told them I was going to do my best to make them want to find a way to keep me when my contract was up or at least keep me in mind the next time they had an opening. How did that work? So far so good, they found a way to extend my contract and keep me twice as long as they initially hired me for and I am still there. With any luck, this will be the job I retire from in fifteen or twenty years.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: More
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

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March 7 2019

Finding Time for Hobbies

Do you have hobbies? Do you make time to enjoy your hobbies regularly? Maybe you are like so many others who wish they could fit in the time for their hobbies but just don’t know where to find the time.

A few years ago I decided to find help with finishing the crochet rug I had started in a class but then got busy and put it away to finish later. The problem was that when later came, I couldn’t figure out how to pick back up where I left off. I decided to take it to my family’s Thanksgiving gathering and ask my Aunt Mary if she could help me figure out how to finish the project. She wasn’t used to crocheting with such a huge hook, but the stitches are still the same and she took one look and knew it was a single crochet stitch, but I had no clue back then. She got me started and I kept going until it was finished that day. I decided then and there that if I was going to crochet I would have to do it regularly so I wouldn’t forget again. I didn’t start any other crochet projects for a long time, and by the time I did want to do another rug, YouTube was a thing.

YouTube is amazing for teaching you practically anything you want to learn and you can rewatch or pause and step your way through the video as often as you need to until you know what you are doing. If one person’s way of demonstrating a crochet stitch doesn’t work for you just look for someone else demonstrating the same stitch.

So you are wondering no doubt if I am completely off topic or if I am going to share ideas to help you find time for your hobbies after all.

1 Find Events to Attend

When I started that second rug, it went well enough but the rug ended up looking like an infant-sized basket instead of a flat rug. I found a group that met once a month at my local library that would offer help if needed and let me meet others who also knitted or crocheted. You can read about How I Learned to Crochet if you like. I found two more groups that all meet once a month for about two hours. I rarely crochet at home, but I look forward to meeting up with these three groups of fellow yarnslingers and this means I can get about three hats a month crocheted for charity if nothing else.

2 Give Up Social Media 

Now don’t panic and start throwing things. You might just want to give up one form of social media for a month and see how it goes while still using the others. Maybe you could just declare an hour or two a week a social media free hours and use that time to work on one of your hobbies. We could all stand to cut back on the scrolling through our feed thing.

3 Find a Friend and Make a Hobby Date

Maybe your hobby is running or swimming or trying new flavors of ice cream or scrapbooking. I bet you have a friend who also enjoys this hobby or would like to get started. Make a date and do only hobby-related stuff. If you don’t have a friend who enjoys the same hobby, see number 1 above and make a new friend.

4 Teach Your Hobby

Maybe you need to make a little extra so you have a part-time job. Maybe you just want to share the love of your chosen hobby with others. Either way, you could teach it to one person or sign up to teach a class. You get to share something you love and spend time doing it at the same time.

5 Hobby While You Wait

Maybe you want to find more time to read, knit or draw. These are all things that could be kept in a tote bag or backpack specifically for those times when you find yourself waiting at the doctor’s office or the pickup line at school. You can also do these things while sitting and watching

6 Find a New Hobby

If you are finding it hard to fit your current hobby into your schedule, maybe you need to find a new hobby that is easier to fit into your schedule. Be open to trying new things.

7 Find Common Hobbies

If you have hobbies in common with those you are already spending your time with, you can all hobby together. Maybe the family could go hiking together on weekends? If you are looking for something you can do with others, look into Letterboxing or GeoCaching. Both are fun ways to explore your area and get a little exercise and fresh air.

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March 2 2019

Search (Five Minute Friday)

The older I get the more I seem to search.

Search for the right combination of remedies to get me through the cold/flu/plague that has been going around at work.

Search for the online instruction manual so I can set the atomic clock after I replace the batteries. (No, it is not as easy as you think!)

Search for a job.

Search for God’s will in my life.

Search for those pants I bought a year ago.

Search for the second key to my car.

Search for the patience and the will not to speak my mind.

Search for something meaningful to write a blog post about each week.

Search for deals on the groceries each week.

Search for ways to stretch the funds we have to meet our current needs and save enough for retirement.

Search for ways to earn more money.

Search for new recipes and the inspiration to keep cooking meals after so many years.

Search for new ways to make the old recipes healthier (Butternut Squash Brownies)

Search for ways to help others.

Search for ways I can make a difference in this world.

Search for the next book I’ll read or listen to from the library.

Search for the willpower not to eat the things I shouldn’t.

Search for the wisdom to say the right thing and the tact to keep my mouth shut when that fails.

Search for my ancestors to help me understand who I am and where I came from.

Search for ways to recycle, reuse, or restore things instead of replacing them with new and filling the dump with castoffs.

So many things to search for, so little time… What do YOU search for?

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Search
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.