August 9 2018

Anniversary (Five Minute Friday)

The word for Friday, August 3rd was anniversary. I thought I knew what I wanted to write about it as soon as I saw the word because we just celebrated our 32nd wedding anniversary on July 26th. But then it occurred to me that not all anniversaries that are remembered are to celebrate happy occasions. We remember things that happened like the death of a loved one or the dissolution of a marriage as well. Sometimes it is the date we started a job or the year we graduated from high school or college. An anniversary is merely a means of marking, in years, the time that has passed since a monumental event.

This week, my husband and I celebrated the anniversary of the day we met. We met thirty-six years ago, August 7, 1982, at the graduation party for a mutual friend. We might never have met had it not been for the closing of the high school hubby had attended and this friend having to finish her course requirements at the high school I attended. We met in summer school where we were taking both Government and Economics for four hours each morning so we wouldn’t have to spend an entire semester in each of these classes. There simply were not enough class periods in the school day to take all the academic classes I wanted to take so I often chose to take those I dreaded the most in summer school to get them over with faster. Continue reading

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August 9 2018

Karen’s Cabbage Soup

A few months ago I saw a video from one of my favorite YouTubers, Sophia from My Great Challenge, showing how she makes cabbage soup. I have never been fond of cooked cabbage, but it looked so good and she raved about how good it tasted, so I decided to get all the things and give it a try myself. The fact that it was super low calorie was a bonus. Sophia told us how much of each chopped veggie to add, but then pretty much said to season it to taste. That was the problem, I had no idea how much of the seasonings to try putting in, so I winged it. I really liked it the first time so I kept the seasonings the same and just increased the quantities of some of the veggies the next time I made it. My almost 14-year-old niece was there when I made it the next time with the increased veggies and helped me make it. She knew what was in it and was hesitant to taste it, but after it had cooked a while, she told me she had to try it because it smelled amazing. She tried just a cup at first and liked it so much she came back for seconds. So, this recipe is officially Brittany approved. Hubby loves this soup and says I can make it as often as I want.

Karen’s Cabbage Soup Recipe
Makes about 8 (2-cup) servings Continue reading

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August 2 2018

6 Writing Idea Generators

I hate to admit it, but sometimes I have no inspiration to write. I know, shocking, right?

When this happens, there are several things you or I can do to get over it. I am going to share six of them here.

1) One-Word Prompts

One of my favorites is using the one word prompts given each week at FiveMinuteFriday.com. These one-word prompts always seem to turn into something, though I won’t even pretend they are always easy to write to. Knowing that at least fifty other people are going to be writing and posting about the same word in the next week helps me not to admit defeat and give up on any specific week/word.

So, what if you randomly opened any book with your eyes closed and chose a word by pointing your finger down on the page? It could work. Since no one else would know, you could always pick a different word on the page if the one your finger landed on doesn’t inspire you to write for at least five minutes the way one of its neighboring words does. Once you have your word, set a timer for at least five minutes and see how much you can write. Remember to use the word you chose at least once. Continue reading

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July 31 2018

Thirteen (Five Minute Friday)

The Five Minute Friday prompt this week was thirteen. I wrote a post last fall with “13 Lessons Learned on Friday the 13th at the Airport”, but reposting that seems like cheating especially since the prompt wasn’t given on Friday the 13th. So, I thought I’d give you 13 Life Lessons instead.

Thirteen Life Lessons:

1. Always put God first. Trust me on this.

2. Live within your means. Debt takes forever to pay off. If you can’t pay cash for it, wait to buy it until you can. Spend less or make more.

3. Save for the future. Pay yourself first by saving at least 10% into savings. You should have an emergency fund that will cover three to six months of your living expenses. After you have your emergency fund, then save for retirement or the kids’ college fund.

4. Pick up after yourself. Nobody likes cleaning, so just don’t make messes. There is never any reason clothing should be on the floor. Put it in the designated laundry hamper when you take it off or hang/fold it neatly to be worn again. Trash goes in the trashcan. Leftovers need to be put away properly, not left to draw flies. If you spill something, clean it up right away. This will make a huge difference in the overall cleanliness of your home.

5. Always do your best in everything. If you don’t have time to do it right, you sure don’t have time to do it again!

6. Leave a room cleaner than you found it. Even a public restroom can benefit from a quick swipe with your used paper towel to tidy the sink before you throw it away. If you are leaving a room, look around to see if there is something you can take with you to the next room and put away.

7. Recycle whatever you can. Newspapers, cardboard, plastic, metal, and glass can all be recycled free of charge where I live by dropping them off at the local park in the proper receptacles. Why fill the dumps with stuff that could easily be recycled? Reuse things instead of buying new. Use up the old before replacing it. Make do.

8. Make yourself useful every day. I try to crochet a hat for the homeless while riding in a car on a trip or sitting and listening to an audiobook. There is something you can do to make life better for someone, so do it. Maybe a neighbor could use a hand with yard work, a new mom could use your help with a home-cooked meal, the neighborhood kids could use your help with homework or learn a new skill. If you are able to sit up in bed, there is something you can do to be helpful to someone.

9. Less is more. Capsule wardrobes are all the rage. This applies to food, perfume, and makeup too. A little goes a long way. Declutter the things you don’t use and share them with others who will use them. Tidy up your living space, yard, or neighborhood.

10. Learn something new every day. A word, a skill, a random fact, it doesn’t matter but “use it or lose it” applies to your brain too.

11. Don’t be afraid to try new things. Foods, travel, crafts, gadgets, try them all (except drugs and illegal things).

12. Don’t let your weight creep up. Trust me it is very hard to get it off and even harder to keep it off. Just don’t gain it in the first place. Weight Struggles Are Real

13. Find joy in the simple things. Instead of getting upset that you seem to always have laundry to do or housecleaning chores, be grateful that you have clothing and a house to need cleaning. Not everyone does. Laundry is a privilege. You have clothes to wash, fresh clean water that comes through pipes to the washing machine. You have a choice of temperatures and even the option of hanging it out to dry or using the other laundry appliance called the clothes dryer. Your ancestors had a lot more to complain about when it comes to laundry and so many other things too.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up!
The prompt this week is: Thirteen
The assignment: Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation. Just write.

July 26 2018

Review: Gila Window Films

A few weeks ago, my sister and I installed vinyl window film on her bathroom windows to give privacy without blocking all the light. I was a bit intimidated at first, but after reading the directions thoroughly, we decided to give it a go. We had the Gila Window Film Complete Installation Kit and a roll of film similar to, but not exactly like this one: Gila Privacy Control Mosaic Circles Decorative Residential Window Film No Glue No Adhesive Static Cling DIY (36in x 78in). See the affiliate links to these products below.

There are loads of different patterns available and further information about the product available at the manufacturer’s website (https://www.gilafilms.com/).

Basically, we had to clean the windows thoroughly and use the cloth provided to dry them. We cut the film an inch larger than the window on all sides and then sprayed the special sauce in the spray bottle on the window and film and smoothed it all down with the squeegee tool provided. We used a knife blade to cut the excess film right up against the window frame. It was nerve-racking the first time but once we had done it we were fine. Because it is not glued to the window it can be easily removed or repositioned. Continue reading

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